念奴娇的纯情

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I have written a lot of love letters to a foreigner because that was my job. Now I have a look at those letters. They are not for me, they even not belong to me. But I wrote them. I love them all.

Someone often asks me what love is and why I can write these love letters even though I am not the leading actor. Love is always related with marriage, responsibility and loneliness. I am living a happy life. Not everyone knows what happiness is. But I believe everyone has his/her own meaning of it. And if you believe yourself live a happy life, that is enough. Because no one can seize your real happiness from the bottom of your heart.

In one of these letters, I wrote:

"Loneliness is not good, but it could make people think. Thinking a lot of things, thinking themselves, what is wrong and what is right, how to deal with difficulties. Thinking a lot of things about life, love, marriage and work. Loneliness is such things. sometimes the tempo of cities is fast, people have no time to think what has happened. They only thought what will happen but forgot to draw lessons from the past. Most of time in our lives, we need the happy time and warm moments, only a little loneliness is needed for doing such thing, not for sadness. This is my new thoughts about loneliness."

Now I have new thoughts about loneliness too. It is not only for thinking something, but also for memories. If you feel lonely, you will recollect some time and moments about love and happiness, or you may think back some bad times. These memories are your fortune, because they will buildup your whole life. They are not only memories and old days for you, they won't go, just beside you.

If you feel tired, or you are feed up with trivia of your life, try to taste your loneliness, you may have a little of sad feeling, you will know how to deal with these minor difficulties from your unpleasant memories, because everyone could learn from his experience. Or luckily you may find good and warm moments in you life, these moments will help you get through difficulties you faced with. And you will find your loneliness is gone. Because you use your time reasonably, you gain a lot from your recollection.